Put that broom away. A group of Lincoln High School staff and parents is taking a frank, direct approach to helping students stay healthy and feel comfortable in school, ensuring that no problem is ignored or swept under the rug.
Mike Roach is pictured with his daughter, Lincoln senior Isabel Osgood-Roach, after receiving the Mary Oberst Award for his work to prevent underage drinking.
The Cardinal Families Health Action Network is a mix of Lincoln parents and staff, led by about a dozen core members, who share two goals: supporting students’ health — especially mental health — and a commitment to get things done.
“You can talk an issue or problem to death,” says Pete Schulberg, a group leader, Lincoln parent and communications director for Oregon Partnership, a drug abuse awareness organization. “The key idea is to do something, whatever the issue is.”
Formed several years ago by former Lincoln parent Diane Laughter, the group supports events such as a freshman scavenger hunt, where older students lead younger peers through the school, meeting key staff members.
“We realized a lot of students didn’t know we even had school nurses, so now we make sure all freshmen meet them, know where to find them and know what help they can provide,” says Mike Roach, another Lincoln parent and group leader.
Cardinal Families also organizes parent-to-parent discussions, called “Courageous Conversations,” on sensitive topics, including eating disorders, suicide prevention and substance abuse.
After one such meeting in March, this one about drugs and alcohol, Lincoln Principal Peyton Chapman summed up discussion points in an e-mail to families. An excerpt:
- “Students tell us that most students regularly do NOT tell their parents the truth about who they are with and what they are doing on Friday/Saturday nights. It’s common to tell parents, ‘I’m just going over to a friend’s house to watch a movie,’ when, in fact, this means there’s a party at someone’s house that is not supervised by parents, and alcohol and drugs are available.”
Chapman also reiterated advice:
- “Parents need to talk and LISTEN to their children. Ask questions such as, ‘I heard Susie’s mom say that Susie was caught with pot in her locker. What do you think about that?’ Instead of, ‘If I ever catch you with pot, you’ll be dead.’ The question opens the door for dialogue, allowing you to insert your family’s expectations through the discussion. The other may shut down the discussion.”
Drugs are just one of many topics addressed by Cardinal Families; an event for parents in April, for example, included a panel presentation highlighting services available to students with educational disabilities.
Group links with existing resources
The health issues faced by Lincoln students are no less common or critical than those faced by students in other schools. Things like unsafe sex, anxiety, drugs, depression, eating disorders and bigotry are universal concerns at the high school level.
Parents wanting to help can be overwhelmed. Where to start?
Members of Cardinal Families approach an issue first by assessing what resources already exist. Then they figure out ways to use them more effectively.
“We connect resources in the school so that staff can more effectively work with each other on behalf of students,” Roach says.
Laughter adds: “If you can help put people together — counselors with nurses, for example — people realize, ‘This isn’t just me. We’re working for the same things; we’re on the same team.’”
Cardinal Families members sometimes help by supporting ongoing efforts. For example, the group began contributing articles about health to Lincoln’s newsletter for families. Members also contribute to student-led efforts, including a weeklong education event in 2007 organized by Rose Festival queen Elizabeth Anja Larson, who overcame anorexia, and fellow Lincoln student Galia Slayen.
Staff support is critical
Lincoln employees play a major role in Cardinal Families. The principal, both school nurses, the school psychologist and a health teacher are all on the leadership team.
That’s no accident, says parent leader Jeanne Ellis: “Openness is key. There is a very cooperative spirit among the staff here at Lincoln with regard to student health and wellness. Our principal’s willingness to acknowledge that students have health issues, and her support of our efforts to bring these issues to light allows us to do what we do with confidence and the knowledge that we are all on the same page.”
As a school with relatively wealthy, well-connected families, Lincoln enjoys some advantages over others in the district. Three of the expert panelists at the group’s event on educational disabilities were Lincoln parents.
But Roach, an affable man with twinkly eyes — who recently received the Mary Oberst Leadership Award from the Oregon Partnership for preventing underage drinking — is adamant that Cardinal Families can be replicated elsewhere. “It really only takes a few motivated parents to get something going.”
And despite the serious subject matter, group members say the work is satisfying: Getting together, discussing problems, coming up with solutions, building support and implementing them is a rewarding process, they say.
Of course, the same parents don’t stick around forever, a challenge for Cardinal Families and similar groups. As the presentation on disabilities ended, a good-natured audience member wondered aloud “how Lincoln would survive” after Roach moved on. Roach joked that he was short on credits and wouldn’t graduate, but later said he plans to stay on as a community member.
Cardinal Families is happy to assist parents and staff at other schools. Talk with Jim Hanson or nurse Terri Paasch by calling Lincoln at 503-916-5200.
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